Candles: Twenty Four

She has a way about her.

Very kind, very loving, very polite. A romantic, Tara says, “It is important not to become a hopeless one. True romance, true love arrives when it is least expected.” In the affairs of the heart, “it is finding the one, the one who will love you and bring you great happiness forever.”

favorite peony: paeonia lactiflora ‘Gardenia’

fallen: a giant rose fallen from a trellis bush (Jun 2018)

path of pink: a walk among the roses (Jun 2018)

Poised and confident, Tara is a beautiful young woman. She has taken the success in her equestrian pursuits in stride. Her greatest enjoyment is being with her horses. The simplicity Tara has found in life, much of the credit goes to her mom, Laurie.

Her songs of the moment is a collection from Peter Cetera. Naturally, “If You Leave Me Now”, “You Are The Inspiration” and “Hard To Say I’m Sorry” are part of the collection. It is his duet with Amy Grant on “Next Time I Fall” that has become Tara’s favorite for the moment.

Next time I fall in love, I’ll know better what to do
Next time I fall in love, Oh oh oh, the next time I fall in love
The next time I fall in love
It will be with you

We love you too.

Happy 24, Tara!

mom and dad

xoxo

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Riding: Grand Prix of Texas

Over the past four years, their riding season would begin in Texas. It made sense to begin here. Quality riders, from emerging talent to top amateurs to professionals. The shows are very competitive. The hospitality always inviting. The setting helped my daughters to develop in a highly competitive sport, and hone their skills and professionalism.

Tara and Cameron in 1.35 m GP Qualifier (Tyler, TX – May 2014)

When the four-show series concluded last year, the show managers were hinting of a change. It would be more than a refresh of the schedule and the adding of more sponsors. They wanted to make the shows more exciting and more entertaining. There were whispers of competing head-to-head with the more prestigious shows found in the Midwest, SoCal, Virginia and Kentucky. It would involve attracting top-level riders and expanding the audience base. Additionally, they would be competing head-to-head with the Texas rodeo season. A tall order by any measure.

With the new associations and commitments firmed, the new show series was announced. The Grand Prix of Texas consists of three Grand Prix events. The three-event, total-point series would begin in Tyler (Week One), move to Fort Worth (Week Two), then end in Dallas on Memorial Day. While riding three Grand Prix events in nine days sound daunting, in addition to other events, it isn’t in practice. It is a matter of knowing your horse, and a matter of the rider being prepared for the next event.

graphic courtesy of Southbound Shows®

Not beginning their season here, it has a different feel for my daughters. This series, though, comes at the right time for them. It is about stepping outside their comfort zone as it is about making adjustments.

The new championship, the quest begins on Saturday.

Tara and Cameron: 1.45/1.50 m Grand Prix warm-up (Tyler, TX – May 2017)

MCATs

Three questions –

flash card: optically active molecules, side A

My daughters had scheduled the important exam to be taken before The Nationals, before the October shows. For more than a year, they’ve been quietly laying the groundwork for a career outside of riding. The entirety of their degree coursework was geared in this direction, and followed by working towards an advanced degree. It is not surprising their career interests are very similar. Further, it is not surprising they are following in the footsteps of their parents, especially their moms.

The Medical College Admission Test (MCATs) are a rather thorough exam. It is part of the overall credential portfolio for admission into medical school or veterinary school. The first half is similar to every standardized test in measuring comprehension, vocabulary and analytic thought. Also included in the first half, behavioral analysis. The second half is the science part – general and organic chemistry, biology and physics. The all-day, 7½-hour exam is completely computer based. It allows each test registrant to receive their exam score within 4-6 weeks.

prep manuals: studying for the MCATs

To prepare for the exam, my girls bought a selection of prep manuals and flash cards. Also, there are a variety of free and paid tutorial resources online, and in classroom tutoring sessions. The manuals are study guides; the flash cards asks specific questions in a “flash setting”. Whether their use leads to a better score is largely subjective, they are primarily designed to help organize the large body of material that needs to be studied.

My daughters found preparing for the exam to be no different than preparing for a highly-rated horse show with top-tier competition. It was important to treat the MCATs like any other exam. Prepare thoroughly as possible, then set it aside. Like a horse show, over preparation can lead to overestimating performance and ability.

While their scores became available while away for the October shows, they resisted in seeing them until very recently (this past Monday). The higher priorities for them were The Nationals in Las Vegas, then celebrating Thanksgiving. Judging by their “eeks” and smiles, they did well.

The three answers –

flash card: optically active molecules, side B

Why are optically active molecules important? Simply, it is all about the molecular geometry for proteins, and for nucleosides and nucleotides (RNA/DNA) in living systems. It is an area of continuing research.

Riding: New Territory, Higher Stakes

My daughters have rarely competed past the Labor Day (USA) holiday. Going to school, followed by obtaining their university degrees, precluded any notion of riding late into a season. When they did compete in the fall, it would be from a favorable calendar, or they had proven themselves in the classroom to gain a few days off. The time away would not cause them to fall behind. Mark and Trish both have placed a premium on studying and having good grades for their riders who are students also. It prepares them for life away from the show ring, away from horses. Moreover, a good student makes for a better rider.

The girls have found riding in September and October to be a challenging, grand experience. With the shows and events more national in setting, and higher rated, they draw riders that are among the best. The skills of their fellow riders are very polished, their experience level substantial. They are similarly detail-oriented in charting and studying their own riding, but are also watching the other riders and horses. It is about learning what other riders are doing to be better – on and off saddle, inside and outside the show ring.

the details: Elizabeth’s course notes and riding notes for season 2017

While the very best riders in show jumping win around 20-25% of their starts, making basic adjustments, including minor ones, are relatively few. They become particularly more reluctant late in the season. A rider will stay within their skill set, opting to trust in themselves and in their horses. A horse, knowing their rider trusts them wholly, gives them the certainty and confidence in any competitive setting.

My girls love the higher stakes. “In riding,” Elizabeth begins, “there are no automatics. Talent and a strong work ethic will open the door. The rest of it, the intangibles, the rider needs to bring them to table. They are what separates individual riders from one another. When it comes together, it all falls into a rhythm – the riding becomes more instinctive, much easier.” And, when the rhythm develops, its inherent consistency follows.

after the practice: Deborah and Comet (Del Mar Horse Park, Oct 2017)

“There is a crispness to the riding,” Deborah adds. “It is fast. It is precise. It is clean. It is focused. Yet, a rider cannot be afraid of making mistakes or taking risks.”

Finishing the thought, Tara adds, “When it comes together, it is as close to perfect one can imagine. Every move is fluid. What was hard is easy. And, what was easy is unreal.”

close to perfect: Tara and Cameron (Iowa, Aug 2017)

The hardest part – to keep it going.

Candles: Twenty Three

From the sophisticated to highly-regarded equestrian to the everyday, Tara can easily wear any style and look. Her strawberry blonde hair draws attention.

Iowa downtime: stylish and sophisticated (Aug 2014)

Tara and Brie: the special forever connection

everyday: a kitty-ready lap

Without a doubt, Tara is a beautiful young woman. Very kind, very loving. Though easy going and relaxed, Tara can be strong-willed when she needs to be. She has a wisdom about her. Credit much of that to her mom, Laurie.

Tara has a way of surprising. And, in a way to make smiles. Her song of the moment is Trisha Yearwood’s “How Do I Live Without You“. The lyrics speaks to her heart.

“Without you
There would be no sun in my sky
There would be no love in my life
There’d be no world left for me”

They speak to ours.

Happy 23, Miss Tara!

xoxo
mom and dad

Riding: The Turnaround

This is when the riding schedule begins in earnest. A few days at home to recoup and prepare for four weeks away in SoCal. While it is demanding, the girls relish the challenge and the attention to detail.

For their light workout, Trish came down on Thursday to watch the girls from the sidelines. Though they rode very well in the first two shows of the season, they said it seemed like they were out-of-sync. The three said the flow could have been more smoother, a little more crisp.

their turn: Tara and Brie start a half-speed circle exercise with Deborah and Elizabeth waiting their turn
(JN Ranch, Jun 01 2017)

With Trish watching, the light workout session became more of a lesson. A half-speed exercise session in the morning. In the afternoon, an off-saddle classroom session. She determined the girls were riding more tightly than usual. The remedy – trust yourself, trust your horse.

While the girls were in class, the horses napped the warm afternoon away. A nice spray down followed when class let out.

the afternoon cool down: Tara spraying down Cameron (JN Ranch, Jun 01 2017)

“Ride now, ride forever”

The Season Begins

The weeks of practice have made them excited for the season to begin. They are ready. The riding has been fast, precise and crisp. It is disciplined. Trish has observed they are riding in mid-season form. “They are that good,” she has said.

saddle point-of-view: following Tara’s lead on Cameron, Deborah’s view onboard Comet (RRC, May 06 2017)
South Platte River on the left

The girls, along with Trish and Mark, are viewing this season as one of great challenge. Last season was a very good one, and resulted with an appearance at the Las Vegas National Horse Show. The expectations for them are likely greater this season if not higher.

My girls have said they are equal to the challenge for this season. There are no doubts, just riding. Everything else will follow.

pure love: Deborah and Captain Andrew (Jul 2016)

Beginning their 2017 season today, my daughters will once again start in Texas.

Photo credit – the saddle point-of-view is courtesy of Deborah.

“Ride now, ride forever”